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Q: 105 – Title: Is getting an immoral and characterless husband a punishment from Allah for some sin that I'm not aware of?...Why did not Allah let me be a Haaji? ...

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May Allah bless you all for providing this platform to people like us to get our answers.

My family got me married last year through a website but later found out to my shock that the guy and his family had deceived us by posting complete false information. He was a drunkard, characterless, did not pray a single namaz, was mentally unstable psycopath. In order to save myself the disgrace of being called a divorcee I was prepared to undergo all kinds of torture and did not tell anyone about this.It reached a point where I had lost the power to think or act. Then one day, I still beleive as if, Allah only showed me the way, and I got divorce from him.

My question is however not related to the above.
By Allah's grace, after the divorce, i got the opportunity to perform Hajj with my parents.

I was taking pills to postpone the periods but unfortunately on EXCATLY the first day of hajj the periods started. As I got completely nervous I started taking double doses of the same pill hoping to stop the periods but unfortunately it went on and i had to RETURN BACK WITHOUT PERFORMING the TAWAAF e ZIYARAT.

I would be obliged if you can let me have your wisdom on the following:-
1. Is getting an immoral and characterless husband a punishment from Allah for some sin that I'm not aware of?

2. Why did not Allah let me be a Haaji? Has Allah punished  me further by not letting me complete all the arkans of Hajj and come back NOT BEING a Haaji?

2. Alhamdlillah and Insha Allah I plan to go in the coming Hajj again to complete the tawaaf e ziyarat and also perform a second Hajj, if only Allah wishes so.

Now between, if by Allah's wish I get married so will that be OK without non-performance of the Tawaaf e ziyarat? (I'm asking this as I know that the relations bet husband and wife are not allowed till all the Hajj arkans are performed and Ihram restrictions follow)

3. Do I have to give a damm' or fidya even if I do not get married?

Once again may Allah shower his rehmat on you for the good work that you all are doing.

Allah Hafiz

Answer

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

A1&2.

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Allah Ta’ala says:

It could be that you dislike something, when it is good for you; and it could be that you like something when it is bad for you. Allah knows, and you do not know. 2:216

We regret to hear of your past. However the reward of the hereafter is eternal and better then the temporary difficulties of this world. Nabi ??? ???? ???? ? ??? said:

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“No hardship, pain, worry etc afflicts a Muslim until a thorn which pricks a person except that Allah by virtue of that forgives his sins.”

A3. If one did not perform Tawaf-e-Ziyara, he/she is still considered to be in ihram. It is permissible to marry in the state of ihram however; it will not be permissible to consummate the marriage. If one has physical relations in ihram then a budna (cow or camel) will also be wajib together with the damm which is wajib for delaying Tawaf-e-Ziyara.

A4. Damm for delaying Tawaf-e-Ziyara will be wajib. You should also note that it is not permissible for you to tie a new ihram for Hajj or Umrah before completing your Tawaf-e-Ziyara.

(Ahsanul Fatawa 4/558 H.M.Saeed)

And Allah knows best

Wassalam

Darul Iftaa, Madrassah In'aamiyyah

 
Can I perform Shia nikah 1st then convert her to Sunni then perform Sunni nikah... PDF Print E-mail

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Q: 104 – Title: Can I perform Shia nikah 1st then convert her to Sunni then perform Sunni nikah...

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I have raised below question many times but for some reason I haven’t got any answer. Inshallah I hope this time I will get the answer from you guys, as I seriously need your help.I am Imran and I belong to a Sunni family. I want to get married to a Shia girl. My family and her family both got agreed. But, her father says he wants to do Shia Nikah 1st after that I can perform Sunni nikah and convert her to Sunni, for this she has to perform Shia nikah 1st. But then my family says she has to do Sunni nikah 1st. On this issue my wedding is on hold. As I was suppose to get married in MAY’08. She said once we to the ritual from her side (because her father is a heart patient). She is ready to accept our Islam and do the Sunni nikha. In order to go head with this matter I have to perform Shia nikah 1st.  Before I ask you my question further I want to let you know her belief, so based on that you can comment or suggest me to do anything. Her father says once she does shia nikah 1st (this is his wish) she can perform sunni nikha and accept the Islam (sunni way) and follow the sunna of Rasulullah (saw).

Her belief :Believes in Allah and his messenger Rasulullah (saw).

Believes that after Rasulullah (saw) Ali (RA) was the Kalifa.

Believes in 12 imams – but she never practice religion!, Beside above 3 things she has no knowledge of Islam.


MY Question’s:
Can I perform Shia nikah 1st then convert her to Sunni then perform Sunni nikah, as shia nikah will be not valid on me?

What is the difference between Shia nikah and Sunni nikah? Please advice me what to do? Hope to hear from you soon.

Answer

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

It is not permissible to conduct a Shia nikah. The issue is not only about the nikah. It is about aqeedah and expressing complacency to the Shia aqeedah. Consider this. If a person intends marrying a Christian woman and she requests having the Christian nikah at a church and then she consents having it in the Musjid later, surely no one will permit that as that will be a tacit approval to Christianity and its beliefs. You should remain firm in your belief and do not submit to having a Shia nikah.

And Allah knows best

Wassalam

Darul Iftaa, Madrassah In'aamiyyah

 
Is it true that Muhammad (SAW) never gave azaan? & is the reason mentioned in the above a valid reason? if not what was the reason of Muhammad (SAW) never calling out PDF Print E-mail

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Q: 102 – Title: Is it true that Muhammad (SAW) never gave azaan? & is the reason mentioned in the above a valid reason? if not what was the reason of Muhammad (SAW) never calling out

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"Woh Konsa Kaam hai jis k karney waley ko Allah ?(SWT) buhut pasand karta hai magar Hazrat Muhmmad (SAW) ne woh kaam nahi kia. Answer: Muhammad (SAW) ne kabhi azaan nahi di thi, quon k agar Aap (SAW) azan daitey to shayad kainat ki her cheez masjid mein aa jati aur nizam - e- kaynat tabah ho jat."

Is it true that Muhammad (SAW) never gave azaan? & is the reason mentioned in the above a valid reason? if not what was the reason of Muhammad (SAW) never calling out azaan?

Answer

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) used to be the Imam. He appointed some Sahaba to call out the Azaan. It is not recorded that Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) called out the Azaan.

The reason explained for Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) not calling out the Azaan has no basis. If that was the case, the mission of Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) could be easily fulfilled by him giving one Azaan and all his enemies would come to the musjid.

And Allah knows best

Wassalam

Darul Iftaa, Madrassah In'aamiyyah

 
Is it possible for a person to commit such a sin (or too many sins) such that he/she is no longer a muslim? PDF Print E-mail

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Q: 103 – Title: Is it possible for a person to commit such a sin (or too many sins) such that he/she is no longer a muslim?

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Until when does a person remain a Muslim? I mean; obviously if we start committing sin continuously we will be bad muslim. Is it possible for a person to commit such a sin (or too many sins) such that he/she is no longer a muslim?

And what might those sins be? Could you please refer from the Quran.

Answer

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

According to the Ahlus Sunnah wal Jamaah, a person remains a Muslim in spite of his sins. Committing any amount of sins does not render a person out of the fold of Islam. However, there are three things that render a person out of Islam.

  1. Istihzaa- that is making a mockery of Deen.
  2. Islihlaal- That is to regard something halal which is clearly haram in Shariah for example Interest.
  3. Istikhfaaf- that is to treat the laws of Shariah lightly and with total disregard.

All these three can be encapsulated in one word- Respect for Deen.

If a person has respect for Deen, he will not make a mockery of any aspect of deen, he will regard haram as haram and he will not show complete and total disregard for Deen.

Such a person will acknowledge his weakness in practicing Deen and will not justify his wrong doings.

Such a person gets the tawfiq and ability to make tawba.

According to Shariah, any violation of Shariah is a sin. That includes violation of an injunction of the Quran, Hadith and rulings of Fuqaha.

And Allah knows best

Wassalam

Darul Iftaa, Madrassah In'aamiyyah

 
I want to know that if a lady have a miscarrage within the 1st 2 minths , will it still be consided that this baby will make suplications to allah for that , and inshallah will try to take the perents to janna.if the perents have saboor PDF Print E-mail

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Q: 101 – Title: I want to know that if a lady have a miscarrage within the 1st 2 minths , will it still be consided that this baby will make suplications to allah for that , and inshallah will try to take the perents to janna.if the perents have saboor

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I want to know that if a lady have a miscarrage within the 1st 2 minths , will it still be consided that this baby will make suplications to allah for that , and inshallah will try to take the perents to janna.if the perents have saboor

Answer

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

A miscarried foetus will intercede on behalf of his/her parents on the day of Qiyamah and in fact take them into jannat.

Rasulullah(sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) has mentioned:

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“Verily a miscarried foetus will persist in interceding on behalf of its parents that are in the fire until it would be said: O the miscarried foetus that is persisting to its Rabb, wake up for verily I have entered your parents into jannat. The foetus will pull the parents with its umbilical cord until they enter jannat” (Ibn Majah, Kitaab Al-Janaaiz, vol 1, pg 513, Ihyaa Al-Kutub al-Arabiyya)

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“Verily the miscarried foetus will pull its mother with its umbilical cord into jannat (Ibid)

??? ????? ???? ??????? ???? ????? ???? ??: ???? ????: ??? ???? ?????".

“Verily the miscarried foetus will see a person anxiously waiting at the door of jannat. It will be told to the foetus: ‘Enter jannat’! (It will reply: I will not enter) until my parents enter jannat”. (Majma’ Al-Zawaaid, Kitaab Al-Janaaiz, vol 3, pg 10, Al-Qudsi)

And Allah knows best

Wassalam

Darul Iftaa, Madrassah In'aamiyyah

 
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