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My husband gets lots of waswasah about divorce even when eating, drinking or when doing something. He gets a lot of waswasah about many different things. He once got a waswasah about his mother when he was sitting by her but he refused to listen to waswas PDF Print E-mail

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Q: 310 ? Title: My husband gets lots of waswasah about divorce even when eating, drinking or when doing something. He gets a lot of waswasah about many different things. He once got a waswasah about his mother when he was sitting by her but he refused to listen to waswasah ..I also get a lot of waswasahs about islam and Allah. I am ill because I keep talking to myself . Please guide.

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my husband keeps getting waswas about divorce all time when hes eating,drinking or when doing something else.he gets alot of waswas about different things he once got wrong waswas about his mom when he was sitting by her but he refused to listen to the waswas and ignored thm.is this a sin?hes on tablets now for these waswas.can you give me some advice to give him?

i also get alot of waswas about islam and my lord allah.im ill because i keep talking to myself and i keep repeating words over and over again all day long.im tired of this illness.i cant cope with the illness nomore. i keep saying wrong things about islam and i dont want 2 say wrong things ever in my life but im ill.my life is hell cuz of this illness.i dont know what to do.when i say somthing wrong then i ask allah to forgive me and i say taubah.sometimes when i explain myself about my illness to myself i sometime say something i was never like this before.sometime when im talking to myself shaitans puts waswas strongly 2 me that it nearly comes out my mouth but i stop it.i worried now about last nite because i keep thinking that i said thats its funny but i dont know if i said that.what shal i do. please write bak

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Assal?mu `alaikum Warahmatull?hi Wabrakatuh,

Waswasa could either be genuine whispers of the Shaitaan or due to some sickness. If it is due to a sickness which is generally diagnosed by a phsychiatrist or clinical phycologist, then such waswasa or thoughts are treatable. Your husband is now on tablets. We hope and make dua Allah grant him shifaa. Aameen.

You state you also get waswasa about Allah and Islam. You also indicate that you get these waswasa frequently when you get ill. It is important to diagnose whether your waswasa is similar to your husband?s waswasa and you require medical assistance like him. You may consider exploring that avenue.

If your waswasa are whispers of Shaitaan, then if they are involuntary and just come in the mind of their own, you should not worry. Simply ignore such thoughts. Do not pay attention whatsoever to such thoughts. Shaitaan puts these thoughts to divert your attention from useful thoughts to useless and insignificant thoughts. You will find yourself consumed in something useless and tangled thereby frustrating yourself. That is the root to many evils, anger, frustration, tiredness, despair, suicidal thoughts etc. This is what is Shaitaan?s objective. The simple remedy to such thoughts is to ignore them and don?t bother. This will be a smack on Shaitaan?s face. Shaitaan will feel humiliated and not attempt his evil plot on you again. Simply read ???? ?????? ????? ??????? ?????? ????????? ?????????? ??????????? and ???????? ????????? ???? ???????????? ???????????.

Also, remember having such thoughts are a clear sign of Ieman. If you did not have Ieman in you, Shaitaan would not bother. Once sahabi complained to Rasulullah Salla Allahu Alayhi wa Sallam about such thoughts. Rasulullah Salla Allahu Alayhi wa Sallam advised him ?That is clear sign of Ieman?. Such thoughts are like the different scenes on a journey. One does not stop to watch every scene on the journey, he glances at it and continues. Similarly, continue with your normal life and don?t let these thoughts stop you in any way. If you do so, you are inviting trouble to yourself. Such thoughts are similar to a live wire. You stay away, you are safe; you touch it you shock yourself.

And Allah Ta'?la Knows Best,

 
Mufti sahib, I am in a lot of trouble with the law here and could face a prison sentence. I have not told my parents at all because they are not well and I think they will worry too much if they were to find out. Am I depriving myself of the Du'aa of my m PDF Print E-mail

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Q: 309 ? Title: Mufti sahib, I am in a lot of trouble with the law here and could face a prison sentence. I have not told my parents at all because they are not well and I think they will worry too much if they were to find out. Am I depriving myself of the Du'aa of my mother?, I have heard that a mother's Du'aa is always accepted.

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Mufti sahib, I am in a lot of trouble with the law here and could face a prison sentence. I have not told my parents at all because they are not well and I think they will worry too much if they were to find out. Am I depriving myself of the Du'aa of my mother?, I have heard that a mother's Du'aa is always accepted. but if i tell her she will worry so much and I don?t want to put her through pain and deprive her of her sleep. what should I do in your opinion? can you please tell me some Du'aa so that i may gain the help of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Jazak Allah.

Can you please also tell me a Du'aa so I can wake up for fajr salat every morning as fajr is very early and isha is very late in the summer time. Jazak Allah.

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Assal?mu `alaikum Warahmatull?hi Wabrakatuh,

We are sad to hear about your difficulty with the law. You did not state the crime you committed for us to have more insight in order to advise you. Whatever the issue is, we make dua that Allah Taala remove this difficulty from you and grant you ease and comfort. Aameen.

On one side you need your parents duas and on the other side you are concerned about their peace and health should they know of your problems. You know your problems and the possible implication on informing your parents. We suggest you identify an intelligent and mature person who knows your parents very well and someone you can trust and confide in. Talk to that person in confidence and seek his wise counsel. The person you confide in does not have to be an Aalim. He must be someone you trust and knows your family situation and can apply himself diligently in giving you appropriate advice.

In the meanwhile, turn to Allah Taala and make dua to Him to guide you to an appropriate person you can confide in. Allah Taala knows best why you are in this condition. Use this moment to ponder and reflect upon your past and remedy your present condition to enjoy a bright future. A wise person uses the experience of his past life to make appropriate decisions for the future. Allah Taala created us to worship Him and be obedient to Him. Peace and happiness comes from Allah alone. Turn to Allah and build a bond with Him. Once Allah is happy, Allah will make you happy. He will remove you from the dark moments of your life to peace and solace.

Perform your five daily salah in jamaah.

Make dua after every farz salaah.

Take out time everyday to make some tilawat of the Quran.

In the morning and evening take out fifteen minutes to read three tasbeehat:

? One of Durood Sharief

?????????? ????? ????? ????????? ??????? ??? ?????????? ????? ????????? ????? ????????????? ??????? ??? ????????????? ??????? ??????? ???????? ?????????? ??????? ????? ????????? ??????? ??? ?????????? ????? ????????? ????? ????????????? ??????? ??? ???????????? ??????? ??????? ???????

? The second tasbeeh of Astaghfirullah?

?????? ????

? The third tasbeeh of Subhanallah walhamdulillah

????????? ??????? ??????????? ??????? ????? ?????? ?????? ???????? ????????? ???????? ????? ?????? ????? ??????? ?????? ????????? ?????????? ??????????

Thereafter make dua to Allah Taala.

Adopt all the appropriate means to straighten your record with the law and then turn to Allah for help and success.

And Allah Ta'?la Knows Best,

 
I have a medical issue that has affected my life. What is Allah's purpose for this difficulty? PDF Print E-mail

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Q: 307 ? Title: I have a medical issue that has affected my life. What is Allah's purpose for this difficulty?

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I am 23 years old. I have a medical issue which has affected my life and myself very much. Over the years it?s getting worse. My problem is I have high levels of male hormone in me. I find it very embarrassing and it has affected my self esteem tremendously. I have been to many many doctors throughout the years but none could find a solution to it, instead they made it worse. The last doctor I?ve seen wanted to do a specific test which could determine what is causing this male hormone in me, but unfortunately this test cannot be done on a virgin girl. I don?t know where to turn to now. I am becoming hopeless. Every day I keep praying to All?h to heal this complication in me because I?m afraid I might face difficulty to find a life partner for me.

My question is, though I tried many doctors for this issue, why did it make the matter worse? What is All?h's purpose? All my life I have been living on a hope that one day All?h would reward me for keeping my virginity safe, so where is my reward? What should I do? I?m so confused. Is there any specific dua that could heal this complicated disease in me? I don?t like the way I look because the medicines side effects burnt my skin and lost my hair. What can I do to get my beauty back so that I can get married soon? Is there any dua for that? Please help me. I wish there was a way to communicate with All?h, but that?s just not possible.

Answer

In the Name of All?h, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-sal?mu ?alaykum wa-rahmatull?hi wa-barak?tuh.


We are extremely grieved at your situation and make du
??? that All?h gives you complete cure from this condition.

At the outset we want you to know that All?h tests his beloved slaves to increase their rewards and ranks in His sight. Hence, such difficulties are a sign that All?h wishes to credit you with immense reward.

Our beloved Prophet salall?hu ?alayhi wasallam has mentioned in one had?th that no soul experiences pain, so much so that even a thorn does not prick him, except that his sins are alleviated and his ranks are increased.[1] So while you endure these difficult times, always keep in mind that these difficulties are securing you a better place in the eyes of All?h.

All?h is Al-Hak?m (The Wise). There is wisdom in everything that All?h does. It is due to our short sightedness and lack of understanding that we do not understand the system of All?h. Maulana Yunus Patel Saheb (db) explains that every Muslim should know any calamity that strikes a person, has an even severer one which could have occurred. In this way he will realize that All?h has safeguarded him/her from a worse calamity and afforded him/her the rewards by afflicting difficulty of a lesser degree.

In our times, hormonal imbalance has become a very common condition among women. There is a rise of distress and anxiety attacks because of this condition. This is primarily due to the increase in chemically altered foods. However, these conditions were also present in the times of Sah?ba radiall?hu ?anhum as well. In fact, Im?m Tirmidhi rehmatull?h ?alayh records in his Sunan a detailed incident of Zainab bint Jahsh radiall?hu ?anha seeking advice from Rasulullah salall?hu ?alayhi wasallam regarding continual menstrual bleeding (state of Mustah?dhah).[2] This is one of the common symptoms of hormonal imbalance. Rasulullah salall?hu ?alayhi wasallam gave her some advice with regards to the situation keeping consideration of her personal condition as well as the geographical and climatic conditions.

Islam encourages us to live a healthy and wholesome life. Do not become despondent with these trials and tribulations and continue your efforts to find a suitable cure. If conventional medical treatments are not helping then you may try some alternative medicine as well. There is much benefit in some herbal medicines to resolve such imbalances.

In one Had?th Jabir radiall?hu ?anhu narrates from Rasulull?h salall?hu ?alayhi wasallam that,

?There is a cure for every illness, and when the medicine is applied to the disease it is cured with the permission of All?h All Mighty and Glorious.

(Sah?h al-Muslim #5466)[3]

Whenever you feel despondent of the situation and helplessness begins to shake your hope for mercy from All?h, then turn to the Holy Quran and read the life of Sayiduna Ayub ?alayh sal?m. All?h has narrated the history of Ayub ?alayh sal?m to instil sabr and patience within the self. It was nothing but the servitude and patience of Ayub ?alayh sal?m which earned him the honour of being praised by All?h Himself. All?h states about him:

?Truly We found him full of patience. How excellent a servant!
Continually returning (toward his Lord)!?

(Qur??n 38:44)[4]

So keep striving and keep hoping for the bounties of All?h to pave your path. During your endeavour, keep a close link with All?h subh?nahu wa ta??la since this is the primary test in these trials. Stay firm with your daily sal?h, reading of Qur??n and other ?ibad?t. Utilize these times of worship to increase in your supplications. All?h loves the humility and humbleness of his slave. When the tests and trials reach an unbearable stage, and yet the slave of All?h persists in His ?ib?dah and supplication, then the doors of rahmah (mercy) open up and shower the blessings of All?h upon that slave.

You should also recite the following du??? abundantly as per the sunnah of Rasulullah salall?hu ?alayhi wasallam.

????? ?????????? ?????? ??????? ???????? ????????? ??????? ?????? ????????? ???????
"??? ?????? ?????? ??????? ?????????? ?????????? ??? ?????? ?????? ??????? ????? ???????????? ??????????? ??????? ????????? ??????????"
Whenever Prophet salallahu ?alayh wasallam would face distress he would recite:
?There is no deity except Allah, The Mighty and Forbearing; There is no deity except Allah, Lord of the skies and the Earth and the Lord of the Mighty Throne?

(Sahih al Bukhari? #6345)[5]

And All?h knows best.


[1] " ??? ???? ???????? ??????? ?????????? ????? ????????? ?????? ???????? ??????? ????? ???????? ??????? ?????? ????? ?????????" (???? ??? ??? ????? ??? 10921)

[2] (??? ??????? ? ??? ?? ????????? : ????? ??? ???? ? ??? 128)

[3] "??? ??? ???? ???? ???? ???? ????? ??? ???? ???? ?? ???" (???? ???? ? ??? ??? ??? ???? ???????? ??????? ? ??? 2205)

[4] ?????? ???????? ??????? ????????? ???? ????? ???????? ?????? ??????????? ???????? ?????? ????????? ??????? ???????? (?????? ?????? ? ???? ? ??? 44)

[5] ?????? ?????? ??????? ? ???? ?????????? ?????? ?????????? ??? 6345)

 
My question is that my family members is of the the view that we should not do WAZAIF without the permission of any BUZURG, and if we do these wazaif without their permission they can be harmful for ourselves. PDF Print E-mail

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Q: 308 ? Title: My question is that my family members is of the the view that we should not do WAZAIF without the permission of any BUZURG, and if we do these wazaif without their permission they can be harmful for ourselves.

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Assalam o alikom , my question is that my family members specially my mother is of the the view that we should not do WAZAIF without the permission of any BUZURG, and if we do these wazaif without their permission they can be harmfull for ourself i am confused that the wazaifs are the names of Allah Subhana Wataala or Quaanic aayat, so why should we seek any ones permisssion for this purpose. Please guide me Ill be thankfull to you for this. ALLAH HAFIZ.

Answer

Assal?mu `alaikum Warahmatull?hi Wabrakatuh,

The general du???s and waz??if that are in the Qur??n and Ahad?th maybe recited by any person, male or female. One does not require permission from any person to recite such du`??s and waz??if.

For example, Rasulullah salallahu ?alayhi wasallam advised to recite the tasb?h F?timi after every fardh sal?h. Tasb?h F?timi is to recite 33 times Subh?n Allah, 33 times Alhamdu Lillah and 34 times Allahu Akbar. (Bukh?ri)

Rasulullah salallahu ?alayhi wasallam also encouraged to recite the three Quls (Qul Huwa Allahu Ahad, Qul A??dhu Bi Rabbil Falaq and Qul A??dhu Bi Rabbin N?s) before sleeping. These du???s and waz??if are for everyone to read.

There are many publications on general du???s for example, Hisn Has?n, Waz??if-ul-Muqarrab?n by Moosa Olger Saheb. Those books contain many general du???s and waz??if and are compiled for easy reference for the general public.

There are certain waz??if prescribed by spiritual mentors for example, to recite L? Il?ha Illa Allah loudly two hundred times or Allahu Allah thousand times in a specific way. The specific number and ways of recital of those waz??if are not mentioned in the Ahad?th. These are prescriptions by spiritual guides for spiritual upliftment of their followers. These prescribed waz??if are not fardh, sunnah or w?jib. There is also no prohibition in Shar??ah from reciting these waz??if in a specific way and specific number of times. This is a spiritual cure with the prescription of spiritual guide.

It is similar to a patient who goes to a physician and is prescribed medication for example, three tablets daily after each meal. No patient or outsider questions the legitimacy of such a prescription. It is understood that the physician has prescribed the medication based on his expertise and training and in the interest of his patient. Similarly, are the waz??if prescribed to a disciple. He practices those waz??if as a spiritual cure and upliftment. It is meant for him alone, not for another person. One cannot use the medication of a patient without consulting his physician. It may be detrimental to one?s health. Similarly one cannot follow specific waz??if prescribed by a spiritual guide without being consulted by a spiritual guide. That may be to ones detriment physically and spiritually.

And Allah Ta'?la Knows Best,

 
Is there a dua for safe delivery? PDF Print E-mail

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Q: 306 ? Title: Is there a dua for safe delivery?

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As Salaam Alay Kum Mufti Sahab,I have a question relating to my sister?s pregnancy. She is living with her husband and 2 year old daughter in a remote city of France. She is in her 8 month of pregnancy. My brother in-law told me on phone that, my sister went for scanning today and doctor said that, the child?s head should have turned downwards by this time, or else it will be difficult for the child to come out. They have to do the operation (Khuda-na-Khasta), for the child to come out, if the child?s head doesn?t turn downwards. We are very worried regarding this.

I have asked my brother in-law to do ablution and recite Surah- Fatiha 7 times and breath (dum) it in on Zum-Zum water and give it to my sister.? Could you please suggest us some dua/ surah which we can recite for the normal delivery of the child. This is a very crucial period for them, as they are alone there in a remote place, with no family or friends. We know that it is just a matter of less than a second or just a thought for ALLAH to do this. We are praying as well for this. Is there any dua / surah which our beloved Prophet Hazrat Muhammad (Sallahu Alaihi Wasallam) has told us in this matter?

We would be very grateful to you for this and INSHALLAH you will get a reward for this in hereafter life. A quick reply will be very very beneficial to us Mufti sahab. Hope you can understand our situation.

As Salaam Alay Kum,

Mohammed.

Answer

In the Name of All?h, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-sal?mu ?alaykum wa-rahmatull?h wa-barak?tuh.

Recite ?? ???????? ??????????? ??????????? ?? ???????? (y? Bad?? al-aj??ib bi al-khayr, y? Bad??) 1200 times daily, in addition to making du?? to Allah.? May Allah grant her a safe delivery of a healthy and pious child.? ?m?n.

And All?h knows best.

 
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